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Stephen - I saw this very conventionally attractive 24 y/o White woman share her "tragic" story of voting for Donald Trump because he promised to make IVF "free". I don't care that he said that (he did) or said that he was the "Father" of IVF (he did) or how many targeted FB ads or partisan bots or IG influencers repeated that "Trumpism" to her. She got conned because a conman told her she was special and he would accomodate her special needs (which he was forced to do b/c his horrible anti-abortion Supreme Court judges enabled state restrictions on abortion led to "fetal personhood" laws that would have ended IVF availability AND THAT WAS VERY VERY UNPOPULAR WITH PEOPLE LIKE RYLEIGH WHOSE BOTES HE NEEDED). I tried to put myself in the shoes of a 24 y/o who had decided that she was entitled to be impregnated with a biological child and that the government should make it possible for her to become pregnant and that her fertilized egg would develop perfectly during an uncomplicated pregnancy and that she would not miscarry and need abortion care during the pregnancy or that if she did she would receive it in a timely and safe manner that would preserve her life and fertility in order to try again with "free" IVF to conceive and carry to term and give birth to a healthy baby. I could not do it. Is infertility a painful reality for some people? Yes. Do I know people personally who have struggled with the emotional rollercoaster and financial nightmare of trying to conceive by "assisted" means? Yes. Do I want people who want a family to be able to raise a child or children? Yes. And I am sorry for the loss of their dream of having a biological child? Yes. That does NOT mean they cannot have a "family" and raise children. If the point of all this is to bring a child to love and nurture and raise into your home, Ryleigh could still do that, with or without government-funded IVF. SHE IS 24 YEARS OLD. Does she want a perfect life and perfect child? Get the fuck over it. Children are a huge crapshoot and enormous financial and emotional risk and I have worked with all kinds of kids from all over and I love and care about all the kids I have ever met to bits. Every one of them deserves and needs a loving family. Boo hoo for Ryleigh. She LET HERSELF be conned by a man who openly proclaimed he was a conman, who openly operated HIS WHOLE LIFE as a lying, self-serving criminal and conman, whose whole existence was a giant lie and series of abusive cons and ripoffs and BETRAYALS, and if his campaign conjob to avoid accountability and prison sentences hadn't meant Ryleigh's personal job loss and healthcare coverage loss and no free fertility treatments for her to conceive imaginary blue-eyed, blonde biological children, she sure seems like she would have been perfectly FINE with millions of schoolchildren going hungry every day and veterans losing their medical care and public schools being bled dry for private profits and penniless seniors thrown out into the streets to die and rural hospitals going bankrupt and pandemic diseases killing and disabling hundreds of thousands and inflation spiralling out of control with unemployment surging and a thousand other evils as we witness the kleptocratic destruction of our democracy and reckless dismantling of the government built with our money to try to serve our collective hopes and needs and dreams...as long as SHE had a perfect little blonde, blue-eyed White baby sharing her and her husband's DNA to cradle in her arms. FUCK HER AND EVERYONE LIKE HER FOR CHERRYPICKING A POOPED OUT BAUBLE FROM THE ROTTING COMPOST PILE OF EMPTY LIES THAT IS TWICE-IMPEACHED, DRAFT DODGING, ACCUSED MONEY-LAUNDERER, CORRUPT CONTRACT-BREAKER, MULTIPLY ACCUSED AND ADJUDICATED FRAUDSTER, ADJUDICATED SEXUAL ABUSER/DEFAMER, ACCUSED SERIAL SEXUAL ASSAULTER, SERIAL ADULTERER, ELECTION LAW VIOLATOR, HUCKSTER AND CONVICTED FELON 34, DONALD FUCKING TRUMP. It's not like we had "no warning" who he was.

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SethTriggs's avatar

Whew boy this was a neat angle I didn't expect. Once again you can learn a lot from so much media we've gotten to see, even as kids!

And the whole thing about IVF reminded me of the people who tried having their cake and eating it too by voting for abortion initiatives in certain states but not voting for the pro-choice ticket...and then they end up screwed because there's always a way (especially in unreconstructed states) to defy the will of the people. It's usually just used for voter suppression but destroying voter initiatives works too.

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