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Crip Dyke's avatar

This all reminds me of a hard learned lesson from my childhood. Maybe I'll write it up in longer form soon, but the gist is that I lived in the exurbs of Portland, Or when I was little. A Black family moved in to a house very close to ours. Things weren't densely populated (yet -- they would later become so) and so having another child my age to play with was welcome. They hadn't lived there long when the child and his father, Dee Brown, took me on a walk to a park not far away for the 3 of us to shoot baskets together. Brown's son called for the ball, "Dad! Dee! Dad!" I didn't know them at all well yet, so a little later I called for the ball, "Dee! Dee!" There was no defense, just two kids and a nice dad. He would dribble, pass the ball, let whichever kid dribble and encourage them to pass, and once the two of us had passed between ourselves once, he encouraged the second one to shoot.

But I called for the ball, "Dee! Dee!" another time. He looked hurt. Upset. I didn't know why. I just wanted to play. But when I called, "Dee! Dee!" yet another time, he suddenly picked up the ball and decided it was time for us to go home. We'd not been there long, so I knew something had gone very sideways, but I wasn't sure what. I guessed that probably it was because I didn't call him Mr. Brown as I might often do with adults, but I didn't really know him, and his own son had called him Dee once. I thought probably calling him Dee was wrong, but I didn't understand why he didn't just ask me to call him Mr. Brown. I certainly would have.

I don't know Mr. Brown's history, but I remember his full name nearly 50 years later, and the pained look on his face. Calling him Dee instead of Mr. Brown meant something to him, something serious, something fragile and sore. The whole family moved away from that very white area not too much later.

I'll never know the man, but I learned at 5 or 6 what disrespecting someone's name could do, and I lived in a segregated, nearly all white and Latino area of Oregon. The very idea that Mace didn't know exactly what she was saying on that show is laughable. She wanted Harris to feel what Mr Brown felt in the mid-70s. She's racist, sure, but she's also just cruel. If she had been on that basketball court that day while I was learning what not to do, she would have been watching the same thing and picturing what she wanted to grow up to do on national TV.

Nancy Mace is the type of person we should all want as far from power as it is humanly possible to be.

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Inforia's avatar

I think we can coin a new term for what Miss Nancy did… ‘Macism.’ Being undeniably racist, and fully embracing it while denying that she was being racist. She’s the perfect example of:

The Five Stages of Awful Republican Behavior

1. Do and/or say something reprehensible.

2. Double down when confronted.

3. Lie and deny it ever happened when it becomes untenable to defend. Shout ‘fake news!’

4. Say it was taken out of context. Shout ‘fake news!’ and ‘dirty Democrats!’

5. Blame Democrats for making them do it in the first place.

Wash, rinse, repeat.

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