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llamaspit's avatar

"Those who are fixated on appearing morally correct almost always lose the war."

This! A thousand times this!

MzNicky in East Jesus, TN's avatar

I’ve been re-reading Sun Tzu’s The Art of War. Its perspective and tactics have helped me win a few battles in my personal life (wrangling for, and receiving, promotions at work; wrangling with impossible children as a mother). It’s chock full of appropriate pointers that make particular sense these days, such as:

“Engage people with what they expect; it is what they are able to discern and confirms their projections. It settles them into predictable patterns of response, occupying their minds while you wait for the extraordinary moment — that which they cannot anticipate.”

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